top of page
Education. Guidance. Support.
For Strong Marriage & Family.
thoughts on anything & everything
related to dating, engagement and marriage
Devora Krasnianski
Apr 29, 20204 min read
Dating & Corona
These are strange times - but it is our present, our reality. Many who are seeking their bashert are choosing to date even in these...
Devora Krasnianski
Apr 28, 20203 min read
Quarantined & Married. Still important have date night.
Life may be complex and strange right now, but it is still important to spend some time with your spouse other. Perhaps, now even more...
Devora Krasnianski
Apr 22, 20203 min read
Long Distance Date Night for Engaged Couples
You may not be able to spend time together in the same place, but it is still important to spend some time with each other. Here are some...
Devora Krasnianski
Aug 28, 20193 min read
CARE-FRONTATION. NOT CONFRONTATION
Care-frontation, which is defined as “Confrontation done in a caring or loving manner.”
The core of care-frontation is to approach the pers
Devora Krasnianski
May 2, 20185 min read
Date a Person, Not a Diagnosis
All marriages have a certain amount of ups and downs. No matter how healthy the spouses were when they got married. In your life, it is...
Devora Krasnianski
Feb 14, 20182 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 9
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute When to get back to the shadchan? Perhaps, the most important part of the discussion...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 29, 20173 min read
Dear parents, you mean well, but …
as shared with Adai Ad To my dear loving parents – I know you want to see me settled in a happy marriage, and that is why you are working...
Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute
Nov 18, 20171 min read
There are NO RULES in Shiduchim
“This whole shiduchim part of my life is so frustrating and stressful, I wish there was a manual of how to navigate through it.” “Indeed,...
Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are NO RULES in Shiduchim - 8
The shadchen never calls me or follows through with suggestions. How often can I call the shadchen without being a nudnik?
Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are NO RULES in Shiduchim - 7
How might you describe your single?
Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are NO RULES in Shiduchim - 6
How much time might one take to do research?
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are NO RULES in Shiduchim.
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute “This whole shiduchim part of my life is so frustrating and stressful, I wish there...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 8
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute The shadchen never calls me or follows through with suggestions. How often can I call...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 7
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute How might you describe your single? Often people try to categorize singles into...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 6
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute How much time might one take to do research? However much time you think it will be,...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 5
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute What to do when you consistently get “it’s not shayach”? There are several things...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 17, 20171 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 4
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute What to do when you receive a “it’s not shayach”? Take a deep breath and be grateful...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 17, 20172 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 3
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute How to tell the shadchan that you do not want to pursue the suggestion? Again, there...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 16, 20172 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 2
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute If you have an idea for a shiduch, who should you approach first – the family or...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 16, 20171 min read
There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 1
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute “This whole shiduchim part of my life is so frustrating and stressful, I wish there...
bottom of page