• Make decisions with your head.  Your heart and emotions can have a say, but in the end, use your head. Not anyone else's head or heart.

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• Before committing to marriage, make sure that you know enough about each other to make the decision.  Did you share everything that should be shared; do not hold back anything important.

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• Do not let anyone or anything pressure you. You must be very confident that this is what you want.

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 a  “Pressure-Cooker” Shidduch Time

a How well do you know the other person

a How people get engaged to the ‘wrong person’

a How to end a shiduch, with dignity and respect

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