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For Strong Marriage & Family.
thoughts on anything & everything
related to dating, engagement and marriage
Lousy first date – what next?
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute The conversation was awkward, she didn’t seem able to appreciate some things that are...
Devora Krasnianski
Jan 3, 20172 min read
Words Have Power
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute S: “I’m looking for a shidduch for my son. He’s a good kid but he’s chilled. I hope...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 17, 20162 min read
Listen deeply with all of your senses
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute If you listen deeply with all your senses, you’ll be more attuned to engaged your...
Devora Krasnianski
Oct 26, 20162 min read
Active Listening for Relationships
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute Active Listening is a form of listening and responding that can deepen the bond, the...
Devora Krasnianski
Oct 19, 20162 min read
Networking for a Shidduch
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute Networking works! When you are looking for a house, a job, a solution, reach out to...
Devora Krasnianski
Oct 13, 20163 min read
Why some people are late
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute Why are some people late? Instead of condemning the behavior, try to understanding...
Devora Krasnianski
Oct 10, 20162 min read
Accepting an Apology
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute Apologies usually come when you are upset. Not the easiest time to actually hear...
Devora Krasnianski
Oct 6, 20162 min read
How To Say You’re Sorry
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute This one is about relationships in general. And particularly to your spouse....
Devora Krasnianski
Oct 5, 20162 min read
What Should I Be Feeling?
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute How do I know if he is ‘the one’? Shouldn’t I be feeling ‘fireworks’? One of my...
Devora Krasnianski
Jun 28, 20162 min read
Will He Be a Good Husband for Me?
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute During your dating, it is indeed important to confirm that you enjoy each other’s...
Devora Krasnianski
Jun 27, 20162 min read
Conversations for Real Connection
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute The way to really get to know someone is getting into deeper and richer...
Devora Krasnianski
Jun 26, 20161 min read
‘Research in Shidduchim’
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute Understand the role of ‘research,’ i.e. why research is done on the prospective...
Devora Krasnianski
Mar 30, 20164 min read
Dating at the Speed of Trust
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute “Nothing is as fast as the speed of trust” is the premise of a popular business book...
Devora Krasnianski
Mar 22, 20163 min read
Conversation Starters for First Date
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute The whole point of dating its to get to know the other person – who they really are,...
Devora Krasnianski
Mar 18, 20162 min read
The Power of Acknowledgment
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute People have an intrinsic need to be appreciated. For who they are. Not only for what...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 23, 20153 min read
What does it mean when a Bochur wears a white shirt
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute A white button-down shirt … or a colored T shirt … or a colored button-down shirt …...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 22, 20151 min read
Expressing your Gratitude
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute When we express gratitude we celebrate how our life has been enriched by other...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 20, 20152 min read
How Gratitude Helps Couples Through Hardship
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute Life can be hard. Certain aspects of marriage can be hard. And a little gratitude can...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 19, 20152 min read
Gratitude leads to Happiness & Success
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute When you always feel appreciative and thankful for opportunities that have come your...
Devora Krasnianski
Nov 18, 20152 min read
An Unbiased Third Party
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute Every marriage will have its ups and downs. Even strong healthy marriages. There will...
Devora Krasnianski
Oct 28, 20151 min read
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